Random Thoughts in my Cognizant Existence...!!!

Of all the things people choose to believe in, the soul mate analogy is among the most misunderstood. Undoubtedly, you can find your soul mate anywhere, anytime, at any age. Often people go lifetimes, without really finding their soul mate, without really knowing that they have.As it holds true with all discoveries, you have to be truly naïve to discover your soul mate. And a soul mate is not necessarily what popular belief makes it out to be. Your soul mate need not be your marriage partner. Your soul mate need not even be someone of the opposite sex. Also, people tend to believe a soul mate stems from similarity. Truly there is joy in finding someone who is just like you, thinks just like you. But, think about it. If you were with you, would your similar souls connect? Surely you’d be at ease, there would be immense joy, immense beauty, immense understanding. But wouldn’t there be greater joy when two opposing souls connect? Think about it. I’m not saying your soul mate doesn’t essentially come from the same school of thought. But if there were no conflicting behavioral patterns, would you truly grow as people, in each other’s company. Would you nurture each other forever? If you stare into a mirror, everyday, for a hundred years, you eventually see no flaws. When you stare into a talking mirror, however, you learn so much about yourself. A soul mate is a talking mirror. So different, yet essentially the same. Someone who’ll pick you up when you fall…merely because he’ll know you fell. And not look at you with the biased eyes he looks at himself. Instant connection is essential. But more often than not, the connection goes unnoticed. More likely, you are not ready for it...

Truly blessed, are the people who discover their soul mate. Not the ones who think they have or the ones who pretend to. But those who truly do…